2026-03-02 – Weekly Food Service News : Why do we say 86?

Last week on the forum, members were actively discussing a variety of topics centered around improving food service skills and customer interactions. A significant thread focused on handling difficult customers, with many sharing personal stories and strategies. There was also a lively debate about whether server personalities can affect customer satisfaction. Additionally, culinary skills were a hot topic, with members exchanging tips on grilling techniques and mastering cream puff recipes. The origin and usage of restaurant slang, like “86,” also sparked curiosity and insights from seasoned professionals.


This Week’s Hot Topics

Understanding the Best Cuts for Grilling
There’s a detailed conversation about which cuts of meat work best on the grill and why. If you’re looking to elevate your grilling game, this is worth a look.
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How to Handle Difficult Customers
Handling challenging customer interactions is a skill everyone in food service needs. Members shared some effective strategies and past experiences that could be helpful.
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Do server personality types impact customer satisfaction
This discussion delves into whether a server’s personality influences the dining experience, with opinions and studies referenced.
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The Art of Perfecting Cream Puffs
For those interested in baking, this thread offers tips and techniques to master the delicate art of cream puffs.
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Why do we say 86 mid-rush
Ever wondered about the term “86”? This discussion uncovers its history and how it’s used in the industry today.
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Thanks for keeping the conversation lively and engaging. Looking forward to another week of great discussions and shared expertise.

Handling difficult customers can be a total headache, especially when they don’t even realize how their attitude impacts the whole team. I’ve found that a simple, empathetic response — like acknowledging their frustration — can sometimes turn things around. You’ve got to remember, though, that it takes practice to get it right every time.

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It’s interesting how server personalities impact satisfaction. I’ve noticed a positive vibe can change the mood entirely — what do you think about that? :thinking:.

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Dealing with difficult customers is tough, but I’ve found that staying calm and using positive language really helps diffuse the situation. If you can acknowledge their feelings while guiding them towards a solution, it often turns things around. How do you usually handle it when a customer’s upset?

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I’ve found that taking a moment to genuinely listen to difficult customers often uncovers the root of their frustration. Even if they seem unreasonable, acknowledging their feelings can sometimes lead to a quicker resolution. What’s your experience with that approach?

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I totally agree about the mood changes; it’s like flipping a light switch — a little kindness goes a long way. Getting to the root of a complaint can be like finding the hidden treasure in a map of complaints! What kind of feedback have you received from your regulars?

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